Sinful Pleasures Rules Contrary to popular belief, BDSM chat rooms are not pick up joints. Upon entering such rooms, you will not find people searching for cybersex. What you will find is a close knit, but still welcoming, group of people sharing ideas and experiences. One thing that will help new visitors to our home is an explanation of symbols. If a submissive ends their name with initials in brackets (such as {MS} or (MS)) that means that they have a cyber relationship with the Dom/me whose initials are in the brackets. To keep it simple, we use the term owner to refer to a Dom, Domme, Master or Mistress, whichever title is their preference. The term sub refers to a submissive. Those that enjoy both the Dominant and submissive roles are known as Switches and generally have dual names indicating which role (Dominant or submissive) they are in at that time. For the most part, people who have names starting with a capital letter are Dominants and those that have names starting with small letters are submissive. Whether a submissive has a collar or not, they serve only those they chose. Their gift is the gift of submission and it is earned by the receiver. Never approach a collared submissive with intentions that are less than honorable and respectful to both them and their owner. Such disrespect is not tolerated. Likewise, just because a submissive does not wear a collar does it mean they will serve anyone. They have the choice and the right to serve whomever they chose. You must earn the trust and respect of a submissive. Only after you earn that respect and they give you the gift of submission will they serve you. Another word of advice: Disrespect in any manner will get you removed from the room quickly and blemish your character as well. If you are new to the BDSM scene, do not be afraid to say so. We were all new once. The people who come to this room are willing to help anyone that is seeking knowledge. This is your time to explore your desires and what is best suited for you. Being honest with yourself and other is the best place to start. If you are shy, just ask permission to whisper or private message one of the hosts and they will be more than willing to help you. If you want to talk privately with someone in the room , please ask permission in the open room. Some submissive are not allowed to have private conversations. If your request is denied, please respect the wishes of the submissive or Dom/me who said no. This is a show of respect for all. Last but not least, unlike some chat rooms, in our room submissive do not need to kneel and ask permission to enter or leave the room . The room is open to all that would like to join However I might add that if **your** Dom/me has requested that you seek permission to enter and exit, then his/her wishes must be followed. Enjoy your visit with us and make sure you keep coming back.